SEX: THE SUBSTITUTE LOVE
Introduction to JUDEO-CHRISTIAN MEDITATION
A
person who loves the Truth has a ground to receive it. And by what he receives,
he can compare the deception with it and not fall. But the prideful person only
has ground to receive the deception as the standard and so falls into error and
cannot see where he went wrong.
A
woman's way of loving is through cooperation, and she can cooperate with either
a good man or a bad one. But in living with a vain, sensual, lustful man,
cooperation brings out the worst in them both. So what to do? The answer is not
so much in what to do but in understanding the values you are transmitting in
the act.
The
woman usually ends up resenting the man as a way of dealing with him and his
faults, but through resentment she feels guilty, and that usually leads her
around to wanting to cooperate with him more, both as a make-up for the guilt
and in order to get that illusive love from him. The sex as love from him only
encourages the wrong in her to cooperate and build up the wrong in him again.
It is a vicious cycle.
A wife's best defense is to watch her own resentment and
not be so eager to please her husband until he changes. A single woman's best
bet is to look for a principled man rather than one who tends to excite her
through his weakness.
Remember,
the devil's principal way of dominance is through service: Through service the
uncorrected woman discovers both power and contempt, whether she likes it or
not. So the woman who falls in love with a man is nearly always strengthened by
his weakness to feel a false sense of security.
Every
young woman should test for a very special quality in the man she plans to
marry: He should love what is right more than he loves her. And that kind of
man should look for a woman who is willing to take correction from him. With
these two meshing motives, all ego conflicts eventually become resolved between
husband and wife, and they both will live happily ever after.
The
sensible woman seeks a very rare and special kind of love, which few men can
give. Such a nonsexual Love can slowly but surely correct the guileful female
nature, as he does not encourage her to play the traditional role for him.
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