The
following is not an academic and ineffective article on sexual abuse. It is
intended for those millions of Americans who are either victims of sexual abuse
or its perpetrators and who wish to understand and overcome their sexual
problems.
The
Madison Avenue Advertising Gang knows it, rock star idols know it, all child
molesters know it, all pimps, pornographers and sexual manipulators since the
beginning of time have known the ugly truth:
The
secret knowledge they all share is that shock, violence and trauma, as well as
any form of intense excitement, can put our sensibilities to sleep and awaken
the sleeping giant of the sensuous self. The formula is simple: cruelly
violate the innocent in any off-the-wall method possible. Techniques can vary
from promising what one does not intend to deliver, to the terror of beating,
torture and sexual molestation.
Intense
excitement, such as induced by modern rock music, can also provide the trauma
necessary to awaken a sexual and psychological feeling for the violator, i.e.,
the rock star. When this violator or shock source gratifies his own craving
through creating in his victim a need for him, then a "sexual zombie"
is created, fixated to the will and the insane whims of the violator.
This
may be a heavy way to start an article but think for a moment, about the millions
of Americans who are hung up sexually on: sadomasochism, homosexuality,
lesbianism, pornography, rape, incest, bestiality, prostitution and other
sexually destructive behaviors. These people were not born that way. This
article focuses on the little understood processes that corrupt a person's
sexual life from healthy to destructive and life-threatening.
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