How to Destroy a Perfectly Bad Relationship
The false concept of female "devotion”, the
woman's traditional role of catering to men, is addictive to man, just as the
concept of male lust which is stirred up by that role playing is addictive to
woman. When the female supports the male's weakness to obligate him to serve
her selfish ends, she eventually experiences the result of her "love"
in terms of frustration and betrayal. Through her use of man's weakness (his
ego), she weakens him further. This leaves him susceptible to the same
temptation she offers when it is presented from other sources, so that
frustration and betrayal become the result of her supportive "love"
(use). For women, gratification is more an ego/mental experience than a
physical one, while for men it is mostly a physical event.
Either way, selfishly cultivated gratification
leads to guilt, frustration and resentment which amplify the need for
frustrating "love”. It is a vicious cycle. The driving ambition for human
love, like any ambition, is a madness of the soul and just as long as we think
of it as our "divine" due; we will continue selling ourselves down
the river for it, reaping a continuous harvest of frustration.
You are free from this cycle the moment you are
glad to realize that your need for love is just another variation of the folly
of pride. The light of understanding will, in that very moment, release you
from having to do anything more for "love”. No longer are you anyone's
slave and never again will you have to feel resentment in being denied
"love” or frustration because your need was used.
The reader would no doubt think the writer mad were
it not for a latent recognition of or some personal experience with, this
universal principle of sin. The false need to love and to be loved is related
to ancient pride, a guilt which the entire human race shares in its heritage, a
"crime scene" to which every male must return in order to find one of
two things by either redemption (salvation
from the cycle) or ego gratification (business
as usual). Until the mystery of finding love (life reinforcement) from the proper
source (God) is unraveled, we all continue to suffer from "business as
usual”; a syndrome of two selfish people coming together in ignorance,
compounding the suffering of the original sin.
Original sin was and still is used by way of
failure to love correctly, becoming a greater need to use which passes for
even greater love.
Ambition (to become God) is the name of the sin of
pride, as was pointed out earlier in the text. To perpetuate man's illusion of
himself as a king, a deity, he needs a subject to dominate, to use for worship.
His subject offers support to which the "king" becomes addicted.
Eventually the subject turns tables and becomes the ruler of the stupid,
selfishly motivated king. Pride will not or cannot correct (love) another
person of the very quality it needs to use.
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