Inside Mr. Nice
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Roy Master's pamphlet
was written in 1982
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Every Mr. Nice is really a submissive woman inside, the wretched product of an unmanly (or absent) father and an uncorrected mother.
A woman has to be more careful than a man about choosing a mate. Especially, she should watch out for "Mr. Nice”, the super-obliging Cheshire cat. No matter how honest and hardworking or how "devoted" a husband to her such a man may be, if she learns he is not devoted first to justice, to an unmistakable divine fire within, she will eat him alive. A woman deeply desires to respect her husband so much so that the frustration of living with a sweet but characterless animal can bring out the witch in her and drive her to drink and to other men. Unfortunately, most women are drawn to weak men, to "Mr. Meek and Mild, the Friendly Fiend”.
Let's delve into the mystery of this weak and passive "woman's man”. Good, in its purest sense, is what every woman, like it or not, needs. Fair and Firm is the only authority over guile. By patiently jousting with her spirit, the husband possessed of such authority can rescue his wife from the agony of pride but agreeable "Mr. Nice”, by virtue of his guileful support (a sort of false love) serves instead only to frustrate and corrupt her.
Perhaps you see the same kind of invisible genie forces corrupting your children, acting through their supportive friends. You may see the danger of such friendships but your children cannot; it is natural for their budding egos to enjoy being stroked. Their thinking is, "What can be so bad about what makes me feel good?"
No mind involved in pleasure can be possessed of objectivity or foresight. It's up to you to do something to protect your children but by standing angrily between them and their various craven needs (wants), you make matters worse. Your emotional interference reverses your intent, energizing their determination in favor of foolish endeavors and associations. Yet, if you stand silent, your seeming assent supports their faults in another way. What you do and fail to do will both make matters worse and this principle holds true for just about any human situation imaginable.
Likelier than not, if you have a problem, its cause was a milquetoast or violent father. A weak dad sets one up to choose or to become a weak husband. Being a weak man means that you have a lot more of your mother in you than you perhaps care to see and it is her nature in you that is attracted to the same kind of female spirit (dominant-supportive) in a wife. Conversely, female offspring of a dominant mother and passive father are attracted to men they can mold and rule (or save) for exactly the same ego reasons the mother had for marrying a weak man.
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